With the iEQ9 Enneagram personality test, you'll discover your personality types and how they interact with your partner's, leading to improved communication, empathy, new ways of supporting each other and ultimately, a stronger, more fulfilling relationship.
Reignite the passion in your relationship.
Bring out the best in each other.
Reduce miscommunication and hear each other more clearly.
Deepen understanding and compassion. Be closer to each other.
The iEQ9 Couples Report is a one-of-a-kind, sophisticated, hyper-personalised 50-page document tailored for you and your partner. It incorporates each of your unique perspectives and guides you to unlock your combined potential.
The report provides insight into how your Enneagram profile influences your relationship, and describes how you and your partner's personalities are likely to interact, whilst offering many effective development suggestions.
A powerful document that can be used for years to come.
The iEQ9 Questionnaire is the world's most accurate and comprehensive Enneagram personality assessment. It is intelligent and dynamically adaptive; meaning questions change based on your responses and this allows us to ensure valid and reliable results. This intelligent self-assessment takes about 30–40 minutes to complete and forms the basis of the iEQ9 Couple's Reports.
Using our intelligent iEQ9 Questionnaire we are able to pinpoint each partner’s personality and combine the results to generate a hyper-customised report for your relationship.
The Enneagram is a powerful map of our inner selves, providing an amazingly accurate picture of our motivations and how we view and experience the world. This outlook has a profound influence on how we approach our relationships.
If you are already familiar with the Enneagram, the iEQ9 Couples report provides an enriching perspective into your relationship. The report incorporates the full spectrum of Enneagram knowledge and reflects on your core Enneagram Types, Instincts, Subtypes, Tri-type, Centers of Expression, Strain levels, conflict and social styles, highlighting your shared strengths and how you can complement each other and collaborate better.
The iEQ9 Couples Report can be used by couples that are dating, engaged, or married. It is designed for any couple desiring to enrich their relationship.
If you as a couple want to strengthen your bond and connection, understand each other better, and learn new ways of supporting each other, then the iEQ9 Enneagram Couples Report was created for you. Enjoy the decadent and unique perspective that the Enneagram can offer your relationship.
Both partners complete the iEQ9 Enneagram questionnaire. We combine your results to generate your relationship’s unique report. Couples who read and discuss their report will be more in touch with each other's needs and perspectives, relate better to one another, and understand themselves more clearly in the context of their relationship.
Take this opportunity to deepen your understanding of each other and access greater love in your relationship.
Buy the report for yourself or gift another couple.
Brilliant! The report is expansive, rich and allows so many opportunities for couples to grow their relationship. With thirty years under our belt, it is great and affirming to see how spot on the feedback and development suggestions were throughout the report. It is a solid homerun!Allan Milham Arizona, United States
It's unbelievable. It has changed the way we argue and the speed at which we resolve. It's also great to be able to come back to this because it's here in black and white and not he says, she says. It's wonderful. This great relationship has been up-levelledKeri Miller Durban, South Africa
The couples report is clear, kind, modern and professional – just the right amount of detail – and treats everyone with respect. The report provides clarity, growth, depth, hope and possibilities to move forward together. We laughed at most of it – yes, we had examples for all the statements and new understanding kept popping up, even after all these yearsDorothy Oliver Waikato, New Zealand
This report examines one's own relationship with empathy, curiosity, and theoretical insights in a very thoughtful manner. Couples will inevitably have eye-opening experiences and find renewed vigor and enthusiasm for investing in their relationships.Claus Roage Olsen Roskilde, Denmark
First we introduce you and your partner to the characteristics that make each of you unique. We then unpack and explore some of the most significant dynamics that must be considered for a couple to establish and preserve a loving, respectful relationship. We then unpack key themes in a relationship that must be taken into account and worked on to ensure that you and your partner remain compatible and sustain a healthy relationship.
Through the Enneagram's perspective, you and your partner can unearth the elements that truly define you, rekindle your understanding of each other, and appreciate the unique qualities that make your love extraordinary.
As the report unpacks your unique personalities, it explores how you can best care for each other, what to avoid so that you don't upset each other, and how your partner experiences you when you're triggered. Then find out more about your talking and listening styles, where you might be missing each other and what to do to enjoy better communication.
iEQ9 Couples report shows you how your particular blend of personalities can sustain love over the years, enabling you to fall in love again and again. The couple's report will unlock the best way to support each other, raise your children collaboratively, negotiate your finances, and integrate your lives.
If you as a couple want to strengthen your bond and connection, understand each other better and learn new ways of supporting each other, then get the iEQ9 Couples Report.Get Your Test
The iEQ9 Couples Report is a personalised report based on you and your partner’s iEQ9 results. It is a 50-page PDF document that reflects the multifaceted subtleties and dynamics that are unique to you and your partner acknowledging both of your strengths and exploring challenges that you face as individuals and as a couple.
The report uses Integrative Enneagram theory and constructs to highlight and explain these similarities and differences, exploring how they influence each partner as well as the relationship. This understanding aims to give the couple a deeper perspective of each other and the dynamics within their relationship. Both individuals play an integral part in each other’s personal growth and influence each other in many complex ways: a couple becomes more than the sum of its parts. Research has shown this process improves relationships by stimulating honest dialogue, increasing understanding, and empowering couples.
The Enneagram is an archetypal framework that offers in-depth insight about individuals, groups and collectives. The observations are more than merely describing behaviour or putting people in boxes, it helps individuals and couples to go deeper and explore the often-hidden motivations that drive one another to act and react in certain ways. According to the Enneagram, there are nine different ways of viewing and experiencing the world; this outlook has a profound influence on how we approach our relationships. We may think we know our partner entirely, but what the Enneagram provides is a tool for seeing one another through fresh eyes, giving us new insights into how we can connect more deeply. These insights can create and stimulate honest dialogue, increase understanding and empower couples to mould a relationship together where both partners feel unconditionally loved, respected and supported.
This is the first ever Enneagram couples report. Being pioneers in the corporate and coaching sphere, Integrative Enneagram Solutions wanted to provide their practitioners with the tool to deliver relational support and guidance to equip the practitioners with the ability to diversify their skills set, expertise and scope of practice. The couples report is a tool for the practitioners to use to help guide the couple to strengthen and unify their relationship. Other websites and authors have tried to explore relationships through the Enneagram lens but no one has created a report that is specifically tailored to two unique individuals. Integrative Enneagram Solutions understands that every relationship has its ups, downs and growing pains, therefore the iEQ9 Couples Report is a tool that holistically and compassionately looks at a couple and provides some insight into some of the everyday issues and challenges that couples may be facing.
There is no “best” combination, each Type has their own gifts and challenges. The Couples Report uses the Enneagram as a tool to guide couples as they begin to explore their inner worlds and gives them the vocabulary to share their discoveries with one another. A couple who constantly updates their knowledge of one another’s love maps are in touch with each other’s needs and perspectives, relate better to one another, and understand themselves more clearly in the context of their relationship.
It is relevant for every couple at any stage or structure. The Couples Report can be used by couples that are dating, engaged, or married. It is designed for any couple desiring to enrich their relationship. We strongly recommend discussing the Couples Report with an accredited Integrative Enneagram practitioner who can support you in understanding the Enneagram and guide you in applying the insights from this report to your relationship. Therefore, the report is applicable at any stage of one’s relationship and there is no prerequisite length of relationship that you have to consider before using the report. Couples also need to do their individual iEQ9 reports as this is the information that is used to generate the Couples Report. The report can guide couples during times of distress and times of difficulties before unresolved issues escalate, however, it is applicable without adversities. If you as a couple just want to strengthen your bond and connection, understand each other better and learn new ways of supporting each other, the Couples Report also sheds light on those.
This Couples Report is specifically tailored for you and your partner. It incorporates each of your unique perspectives and accounts for each of your personal gifts and challenges. It integrates your core Enneagram Types, Instincts, Subtypes, Centers of Expression, Strain levels, conflict and social styles and highlights your shared strengths and how you can complement each other and collaborate better. The iEQ9 Couples Report is personalised to your relationship whereas Enneagram books broadly speak to each Type and what they may ‘look for’ and need but may not take the other factors above into account. The report provides a more holistic and specific account of your relationship rather than just looking at it from one lens, core Types for example. The Couples Report also positions each relationship within 18 common topics that most couples may experience.
The iEQ9 Couples Report is based on the information obtained from the iEQ9 questionnaires that the couples complete. The iEQ9 has been proven by two independent statisticians to be a scientifically accurate measure of the nine different Enneagram Types. Therefore, it has been proven to be statistically valid and reliable. Please see our statistical manual for more information on the statistical significance of the iEQ9 as an assessment tool.
We need both partners to complete the iEQ9 questionnaire as the Couples Report pulls the results together before generating your relationship report. If you or your partner have recent iEQ9 results, then we can use those to generate your couples report. Please use the exact same email address you used for your individual report so that our system can recognize you. If you do not have existing results then we will give you new iEQ9 links as part of your couple's journey.
As a couple you can purchase the Couples Report for yourself. The language is intended for a general audience and you do not need a specific qualification or background in order to understand and use the Couples Report. However, it is strongly recommended that as a couple you discuss your iEQ9 Couples Report with an accredited Integrative Enneagram practitioner who can support you in understanding the Enneagram and guide you in applying the insights from this report to your relationship. A trained practitioner, with an in-depth understanding of the constructs and the appropriate training, is able to explain and guide you through the gifts of each of the different constructs and can facilitate a space to test and integrate them smoothly and effectively into your relationship.
It does not predict the compatibility of the couple or if the likelihood of ‘success’ of the relationship and make predictions about whether the couple will remain together or not. It does not tell you what to do and what not to do, rather it provides insights and suggestions for opening up the channels of communication and highlights each partner’s different strengths as well as shared gifts. The iEQ9 Couples Report is not here to give the couple ammunition to begin a ‘blame game’ with each other, everyone has their quirks and kinks and the report is here to open up respectful communication between a couple so that they can both feel heard and acknowledged.